independence.
If serious safety concerns arise, that independence can temporarily be reduced.
The important part is communicating why.
What the Parent Should Avoid
There are several approaches that can damage trust.
Public embarrassment
Never use a teenager’s private struggles as a way to embarrass them in front of relatives or friends.
Threats
Statements such as:
“You’ll never have privacy again.”
can turn a temporary problem into a long-term conflict.
Constant suspicion
Assuming every behavior is evidence of wrongdoing can create a hostile relationship.
Reading everything secretly
Covert monitoring can sometimes
