be necessary in genuine safety situations, but using it as the default approach can severely damage trust.
Dismissing feelings
Saying:
“You’re just being dramatic.”
can teach a teenager that their emotions aren’t worth sharing.
What Parents Can Say Instead
Instead of:
“You’re hiding something.”
try:
“I’ve noticed you’ve been more private lately. I’m wondering if something is bothering you.”
Instead of:
“Give me your phone right now.”
try:
“I’m concerned about something I’ve noticed online, and I want to talk about it with you.”
Instead of:
“You’re not old enough
